Tips and advice on how to use your sex toys properly

Your sex toys are your most precious, secret possession. They give you ultimate pleasure especially when you use them properly. Just make sure that before and after you use your stimulating toys, wash them thoroughly to make sure that they stay safe to use and will last long. But remember, sex toys are there to give you extra pleasure, but they’re not a substitute for the real thing.


Sex toys can definitely enhance your sexual relationship with your partner, but use the items as supplementation to your sexual needs, to drive you both to higher heights. But do not let your sex toys rule your sex life.

Gradual progress

Never make haste in using sex toys, especially when your partner is partial with using them. Take it easy at first, start from the most basic and slowly progress into more complicated sex toys. Take it one step at a time, until you both feel ready for the latest technology in sex toys for your ultimate pleasure.

Use to both

When you have a vibrator, remember that it can be used for both men and women. Vibrators can be used to stimulate a girl’s clitoris and can be inserted inside the vagina, and it can also be used to stimulate the guy’s prostate gland by either inserting the vibrator into the anus, or massaging the perineum, which is the area between the ass and balls.

Do the talk

Before you purchase sex toys, talk to your partner first about the boundaries and limitations of the items you will bring to your bed. You need to both agree to the kind of sex toys you are comfortable to use, so as not to ignite any insecurity. Be careful never to make your partner feel inferior of the toys you will use.